This is actually a news item in 2006 - people are found to lie more these days through the use of cell phones, text messaging, and emails. Even the survey finding that "most told lies with the best intentions and to spare others' feelings" is clearly a lie for most people - people lie to protect themselves and avoid further complications, not to be nice. Let's blame it all on those evil technology and gadgets again.
Not quite. People have been lying (and scapegoating) since the Garden of Eden. Today's tech just helps us do it faster and easier. Same with the many other negatives often associated with technology. People atrophying their bodies away online wouldn't necessarily be found working out at the gym had the Internet never been invented. People who have a habit (often anonymously) of flaming others probably aren't the best-tempered or self-controlled people anyway. And let's not even get into what kinds of things cyber stalkers might do without computers.
What the latest communication technologies have created, though, is an artificial sense of security with behavior such as lying. It's easier now than ever before to reach someone anytime and anywhere, but ironically it's also easier now than ever to hide behind physical distance and busyness as excuses. Sometimes these excuses go by pious-sounding terms like boundaries or right to privacy, when the real terms are cowardice and selfishness. For many people, their minimal exposure to the joys and pains of being around living flesh and blood (and fresh outdoor air) have just about made them permanently out of sync with the real world.
What this world needs is a device to forcefully prevent people from lying, a deFIBrillator of sorts that will reconnect everyone lost in make-believe onlineland and resync human relationships based on trust and honesty. Technically, it's not unthinkable, but practically, it'll never happen. Even God chose to pass on this idea, opting instead for free will. God knew beforehand that it's after all not any human gadget, but Himself only, that can free people from their basic sinful nature. That's the truth that perhaps we all need to echo more when using our new means of communication.
